Friday, April 08, 2011

Government Shut Down Stress Relief

Everyone is affected by the US Government Shutdown. Even though it is a few hours away for the official deadline. I am acting now by giving everyone reading this blog a free audio mp3 recording, Hypnosis and Meditation: "15 Days to Transform Your Life."

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Thursday, March 10, 2011

How to Handle People Who Annoy You

How do you work with people who annoy you? How do you handle them?

Here is a lesson that taught me how to get beyond the annoyance.

I listened to Abraham Lincoln when he once said. “The easiest way to defeat an enemy is to make that enemy your friend.”

Several years ago I met Richard. Richard had a personality that did not mesh with mine. Generally, I am a n easy person to get along with. I do my best to view the best in other people. However, with Richard, I tried to flee the scene whenever he was around. I used annoyance avoidance behaviors to keep out of Richard’s sight.

I planned a large public all day workshop on stress. Since I was personally funding this workshop, I was watching costs very carefully. Richard volunteered to help me sell my products back of the room. Even though I probably seemed annoyed that he asked, I was forced to do the cost effective thing and allow him to help me sell my products.

At the time I had just one product. It was a cassette tape on Overcoming Stress. I had no book or large tape album, just one solitary cassette tape selling for twenty dollars.

When the morning of the workshop arrived, I was very disappointed. My public seminar only drew fifty paid registrants. I decided I would give those fifty people the best I could give even though I knew I would barely break even at the end of the day.

I gave a great workshop. I even answered questions during lunch and breaks, never leaving the stage area for a moment.

Richard was no visible all day because the back of the room selling area was actually a separate room leading to the bathrooms and the parking lot.

Finally, at the end of the day and after all the attendees went home, I sat exhausted on stage. Richard came in from the back of the room area with a big smile on his face.

He said, “Wayne, you look tired.” Do you want to know how many cassettes you sold to your fifty attendees?” Secretly I hoped he wouldn’t tell me, but I said, “Okay Richard, how many did we sell?

Richard said, we sold All OF THEM. We sold three hundred cassettes to just fifty people!

I asked, “How could that happen?” Richard told me, “Every time there was a break and during lunch, attendees passed by and they would purchase several additional tapes for their friends and relatives who couldn’t come to the workshop. This buying frenzy lasted all day while I was working hard on stage.

My disaster turned out to be one of my best business days. It never would have turned out that way unless I overcame my annoyance avoidance behaviors and made Richard my friend.

Today, over twenty years later, Richard and I are still close friends. When I think back, I cannot remember what it was about Richard that annoyed me. In fact all the people who ever annoyed me, I lost that feeling of annoyance. I can remember everything about that workshop many years ago, but remember nothing of what annoyed me in the first place.

As Abraham Lincoln once said, ““The easiest way to defeat an enemy is to make that enemy your friend.”

Remember the Abe’s statement the next time someone annoys you. That person may just surprise you in a very pleasant way!


Wayne F. Perkins
Master Hypnotist Trainer


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Sunday, December 12, 2010

Question from Tom regarding Hypnotic Inductions

Tom,

Thank you for ordering my programs. I appreciate it very much.

The inductions I use the most are the following.

I use the "eyes open induction" when working on stage, mainly because this is what people expect when the see an entertaining hypnotist. Plus it entertains the audience.

Also, as I am giving suggestions that the volunteer's eyes are getting tired, I can many times view redness in their eyes. (or at least view redness in the eyes of who I feel may be great subjects to use later in the show)

This gives me a chance to gain confidence because putting on a show, I do it in such a way that I am building confidence in myself as a hypnotist at the same exact time I am building confidence in my volunteers in their abilities of becoming hypnotized.

When I use hypnosis for hypnotherapy, (and most the time this is handled over the telephone) I always use the "eyes closed induction."

The main reason is, the person has some personal problem he/she needs help with. The immediate environment contributes to the problem. If I can immediately have the person shut his eyes, he is out of that environment and now in my environment.

The exception to this rule is when I am talking to the individual before hypnotizing him, and I ask, "have you ever been hypnotized before?" If he says, "yes," then I asked him how the experience went. If it went well, then I will copy the induction that went well and use that. (Why reinvent the wheel?)

If the person said, "I began with my eyes open and the hypnotist had me stare at my door knob until by eyes got tired and they automatically closed down."

I will then direct him to "stare at your door knob, until your eyes get tired and automatically close down." In addition I will say, "you are beginning to feel the same exact feelings as the last time you were deeply hypnotized."

"You may even find yourself going deeper into hypnosis as you know how beneficial it is to your mind and body."

This way, I build on what the previous hypnotist did, gain confidence in my subject, and get to deepening hypnosis very quickly.

Good luck with your inductions.


Wayne F. Perkins
Master Hypnotist Trainer


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"My mission in life is to help you achieve your mission in life."--Wayne F. Perkins

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Wednesday, October 13, 2010

The Magic of a Pet in Annihilating Stress at Work

If you want a quick and effective method to relieving stress at work, employ a pet. The faithful and loving pet can work wonders in reducing stress at work and helping you hope with your daily pressures.

An employee of one of my clients, I will call her Anne, told me that as a manager, she has many stressful exchanges with her subordinates. She said that her employees are “not loyal or faithful.”

I asked her if she owned any pets and her demeanor changed instantly. She began raving about her two young Labrador retriever dogs. After work, her greatest joy was seeing them bounce up and down, competing for Anne’s attention.

I asked what she enjoyed most about here dogs and she stated, they are “loyal and faithful.” I suggested further that Anne, think about here dogs while she was at work to remember her loyal and faithful pets while she supervised her employees.

Now she enjoys here job much better and her employees are creating less stressful scenes then they did before.

Linda is a busy working executive. She is also a single working Mom with two daughters. He divorce took place just after her second child was born. Now the daughters are teenagers, and at that age where they just love to rebel.

Linda owns a large white cat named “Butch.” At night, after Linda’s daughters are sleeping, Linda sits in the living room, curled up in a love seat, and reads her favorite books. While she relaxes in the silence of the night, her cat, “Butch” curls up by her side and begins to purr. Butch purrs for several minutes before sleeping right at Linda’s side.

When asked, Linda always tells me that Butch takes all of the stress out of her life. There is something magical and relaxing with Butch’s nighttime purrs.

One of my consulting clients, Larry came to me with a personal crisis triggered by posttraumatic stress syndrome.

Larry experienced a great deal of combat during the Viet Nam War. One of Larry’s jobs included training dolphins to uncover underwater saboteurs, at a major shipping port in Viet Nam.

Larry enjoyed training the dolphins and once he became a civilian, Larry continued on training dolphins at a major seaside resort in the United States. In addition to training dolphins, Larry’s job included training both sea and land animals.

But of all the animals and pets Larry owned in his life, the most “lovable,” was a rare parrot that he traveled with throughout the United States. Larry found that his parrot provided him with the same unconditional love as a dog, but had other unique qualities that gave him peace in a hectic world.

Larry is now able to control his post traumatic stress from the war and he is able to function much better in life do to his loving, pet companion.

Conclusion:

How do you feel about your pet? Does your pet relieve your stress? If so, how can you maintain that stress-free state during your busy work day?

Working every day toward relieving your stress at work, you may find loyalty and faithful dog. You can brush away stress using a purring kitten. You may find a special love bond with a pet bird.

Experience the magic of a pet in annihilating stress a work.


Wayne F. Perkins
Stress Annihilator



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Tuesday, June 15, 2010

New Help for Meditators

Meditation is just the opposite of hypnosis. As hypnosis is narrowing of one idea or thought down to a central focus, eliminating all distractions, meditating involves expanding awareness by shifting one thought to many unrelated thoughts in a continuing expansion outward.

Both hypnosis and meditation are effective ways of overcoming stress. When in stressful situations all you can think about is the "stressor." This is the single thought you cannot get out of your head.

Using meditation will expand your awareness from one point of view to "many points to view," in this game we call "life."

Click here now and learn more about meditation to overcome your frustration and your stress.

Thank you,

Wayne F. Perkins
Master Hypnotist Trainer and Stress Expert


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Saturday, June 05, 2010

Hypnotism and Meditation by Ormond McGill

It is now ready to go!

You can now read more about and order the new, Hypnotism and Meditation: 15 Days to Transform Your Life by the late and great Ormond McGill and narrated by Wayne F. Perkins.

Click here to learn more about this exciting audio book!

I wish you success, peace and happiness!

Wayne F. Perkins
Master Hypnotist Trainer

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Tuesday, June 01, 2010

Page 7 and 8 of Ormond McGills Hypno-meditation Book

Here is the recording for page 7 and page 8 of Ormond McGill's Hypnotism and Meditation Book.

Just click on this link. Play/pause/Stop Flash buttons will appear. Click on the play button and the recording will start shortly. If you want to go back to this page, click on your Internet browser's "back" button.

I wish you success.

Wayne F. Perkins
Master Hypnotist Trainer

"My mission in life is to help you achieve your mission in life."

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Monday, May 17, 2010

New Hypno Meditation Recording



Welcome,

Soon I will be creating my new Hypno-Meditation Audio-Book.
I will be sending daily recordings of the book and posting them right here. They will be for sale on my Hypnotism Education Website as well.

I look forward to helping you achieve all of your goals now!

Sincerely,

Wayne F. Perkins
Master Hypnotist Trainer


"My mission in life is to help you achieve your mission in life"

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